Therapist in Portland, Or

Therapy for the ambitious, confident, and *basically* composed woman.

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For Women with Their shit Together

(For the most part)

You’re killing it—organized, capable, and the go-to person for everyone. But keeping it all together comes with a cost, doesn’t it? You’re juggling work, family, maybe aging parents, and those unexpected life events that knock the wind out of you.

And it’s not just you. Everyone—friends, coworkers, family—seems to be feeling it too. In today’s fast-paced world, we’re all dealing with more stress than ever before. Nearly half of parents say their stress is overwhelming, and even the Surgeon General says it’s a major public health issue. Just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s healthy—or that it has to stay this way.

Somehow, exhaustion and constant pressure have become the “norm.” It’s as if the world expects us to be constantly stressed, forever depleted, and even to brag about it!

But you deserve better. Life doesn’t have to be about just surviving—it’s possible to thrive again.

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You Deserve More than "normal"

(I'd argue Extraordinary)

Here’s the thing: just because it’s normal doesn’t make it right. That’s not how your story should go—you deserve more.

You are more than capable of rewriting this narrative. You can break free from the cycles of overwhelm, exhaustion, and unrealistic and unsustainable lifestyles.

Let’s create a version of your life that’s not just “getting by,” but thriving—one where you’re surrounded by support, rest is non-negotiable, and joy is abundant. 

You don’t need to be superhuman. You just need the right support and tools to reclaim your energy and write a new chapter.

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During your free 30-minute call, we’ll chat about what you’re looking for and make sure we’re a good fit for each other. If you’re ready to dive in, we’ll schedule our first session!

I’m so excited to chat and get to know you better!
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Hi, I'm Stassi

(Stah-see)

Aka @BossyStassi
I’m not just any therapist—I’m the therapist for women like you: ambitious, capable, and tired AF. I specialize in helping women navigate the complex challenges of grief, life transitions, and the demands of modern womanhood. Whether you’re dealing with the heaviness of loss, adjusting to a major life change, or trying to redefine what balance looks like in your life, I’m here to help.

I know how it feels, as a self-sacrificing mom of two, and a high-achieving, ambitious woman with two master’s degrees from Columbia. I’ve had to sit with the overwhelm of attempting to do it all. I’ve restructured my entire marriage to meet the demands of modern parenthood, and navigated difficult conversations about equality in household tasks. I understand the struggles of maintaining your identity amidst all the roles you play.

That’s why I’m here—not just to listen, but to help you take real steps towards a life that feels lighter, more joyful, and deeply fulfilling.

If you’re ready to finally add yourself to the list of things you take care of, I’m ready to guide you there. Let’s transform burnout into balance.

 Schedule your free, no-commitment, 30-minute consultation today and begin your journey to a more fulfilled life.

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Note: The testimonials provided here relate to my coaching services, which are distinct from my therapeutic practice. For information on my therapy services, please visit the Therapy Services section.

“The healer you have been looking for is your own courage to know and love yourself completely.”

- Yung Pueblo

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