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For Women with Their shit Together

(For the most part)

You’re killing it—organized, capable, and the go-to person for everyone. But keeping it all together comes with a cost, doesn’t it? You’re juggling work, family, maybe aging parents, and those unexpected life events that knock the wind out of you.

And it’s not just you. Everyone—friends, coworkers, family—seems to be feeling it too. In today’s fast-paced world, we’re all dealing with more stress than ever before. Nearly half of parents say their stress is overwhelming, and even the Surgeon General says it’s a major public health issue. Just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s healthy—or that it has to stay this way.

Somehow, exhaustion and constant pressure have become the “norm.” It’s as if the world expects us to be constantly stressed, forever depleted, and even to brag about it!

But you deserve better. Life doesn’t have to be about just surviving—it’s possible to thrive again.

You Deserve More than "normal"

(I'd argue Extraordinary)

Here’s the thing: just because it’s normal doesn’t make it right. That’s not how your story should go—you deserve more.

You are more than capable of rewriting this narrative. You can break free from the cycles of overwhelm, exhaustion, and unrealistic and unsustainable lifestyles.

Let’s create a version of your life that’s not just “getting by,” but thriving—one where you’re surrounded by support, rest is non-negotiable, and joy is abundant. 

You don’t need to be superhuman. You just need the right support and tools to reclaim your energy and write a new chapter.

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During your free 30-minute call, we’ll chat about what you’re looking for and make sure we’re a good fit for each other. If you’re ready to dive in, we’ll schedule our first session!

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Hi, I'm Stassi

(Stah-see)

Aka @BossyStassi
I’m not just any therapist—I’m the therapist for women like you: ambitious, capable, and tired AF. I specialize in helping women navigate the complex challenges of grief, life transitions, and the demands of modern womanhood. Whether you’re dealing with the heaviness of loss, adjusting to a major life change, or trying to redefine what balance looks like in your life, I’m here to help.

I know how it feels, as a self-sacrificing mom of two, and a high-achieving, ambitious woman with two master’s degrees from Columbia. I’ve had to sit with the overwhelm of attempting to do it all. I’ve restructured my entire marriage to meet the demands of modern parenthood, and navigated difficult conversations about equality in household tasks. I understand the struggles of maintaining your identity amidst all the roles you play.

That’s why I’m here—not just to listen, but to help you take real steps towards a life that feels lighter, more joyful, and deeply fulfilling.

If you’re ready to finally add yourself to the list of things you take care of, I’m ready to guide you there. Let’s transform burnout into balance.

 Schedule your free, no-commitment, 30-minute consultation today and begin your journey to a more fulfilled life.

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Testimonials

After working with Stassi, I transitioned from constant stress and burnout to finding a dream job and improving my personal relationships. I have achieved more balance and happiness in my life.
K.B.
Stassi helped me redefine success on my own terms, leading to a life where I feel genuinely content and balanced for the first time. As an ambitious, perfectionist entrepreneur, this is the first time I’ve felt such a deep sense of peace and control over my well-being and my life!
B.G.
After years of struggling as a busy, stressed, maladaptive perfectionist, I can honestly say my biggest challenge now is getting used to this newly-found peace.
S.M.
Stassi’s warm and approachable coaching has been absolutely vital to my growth. Her passion and expertise continually amaze me and have deeply helped me transition from an ambitious woman to a new mother. I am constantly learning from her and impressed by the amount of time and energy she puts into continuing her knowledge in her field.
H.B.
During our work, I have opened up like I never have before with friends or past therapists. Stassi has helped me recognize ways I was harming myself when I thought I was seeking joy and happiness. The dark places I used to go seem like distant memories now. Stassi is truly the best and she brings so much positivity and stability to my life!
W.M.
Stassi has changed my life in critical and wonderful ways. Her small but vital suggestions made an incredible difference in my life. As a coach, she understands the emotional blocks that prevent us from saying 'no' when necessary and 'yes' when it matters, and helps to remove the emotional blocks standing in our way.
J.G.
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Note: The testimonials provided here relate to my coaching services, which are distinct from my therapeutic practice. For information on my therapy services, please visit the Therapy Services section.

“The healer you have been looking for is your own courage to know and love yourself completely.”

- Yung Pueblo

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